I believe she is dead. It has been too long for her not to contact someone about her children. Have the cops done anything about this case or have they just said she ran. If she did run (which I highly doubt) she would have to be so cold not to wonder about her kids. I guess the more I think about it I gues it does happen, but in this case I believe that someone killed her. Have the cops looked deeper into the friendship between the husband and friend? Did she have any secrets, such as a biyfriend or such. I really just need some type of news in this case it makes me so sad.
Hi everyone: just stopping by to see if there was any new news on Margarets case on this board. The other boards are still and no communications. Margaret's case appears to be fading away totally.
I just don't understand why the New Jersey Police cannot haul every single person of interest by force, via supeona, in for mandatory Lie Detector Test. I'm told it is in violation of our civil rights. But I ask you, isn't doing nothing in violation of Margaret's Civil Right Also?
Margaret's husband, who he and she had a dispute the day before her disappearance, police was called but Margaret had already left on her own accord, and went to her Father Haddican's home in a rage and announced she wanted a divorce, the so called best friend, Jersey Friend, who was also in the landscaping business and was astranged from her own husband who was seeing another woman, and dealt with Margaret's husband daily or weekly regarding business issues, this same woman telling the husband not to call police for 2 days? The Haddican's fighting for custody of Margaret's oldest child in court, because they had raised this child for Margaret while she was in the Army, wanted her forever! seems they didn't think Margaret was a fit mother, the oldest childs father fighting for visitations in court, being denied by Margaret due to issues and accusation of the oldest daughter about her father? And Margaret having a premature sick baby who was in the hospital a while before coming home, Margaret breast feeding this child, to me does not show unfit motherhood! "Breast Feeding is not EASY! It hurts everytime! and Margaret endureing all of this basically alone in New Jersey, with all her other family members far away in different states, were not there for physical support, all of this drama in ones life would have definately been enough to make a person walk away from her life as fast as she could.
Absolutely! the thought could have crossed her mind a hundred times during her Marriage with Tim of only 2 years and having two small children within those two years, and another daughter from previous relationship.
From the outside looking in, it would appear that Margaret possibly did have a break down an leave for a while, but you also gotta take into consideraton, the Heroic person she also was, Margaret was in the Army, she was a Firefighter! Physically Strong not to mention head strong and fiesty! per her father Haddican's remark, if someone tried to take Margaret against her will, they would have had a fight on their hands she wouldnt have went peacefully! She was a pistol ball. Her co workers speak of her character being that, of a person who was very stable mentally and emotionally, responsible, and not the kind of person who would have left her newborn baby alone for any reason in the crib that day and left the premises.
So, I see many persons of interest here indicating Foul Play.
I see the husband possibly freaking out when ask for a divorce from Margaret, not wanting to be a weekend daddy to his two girls.
This happens to Men alot, especially when he knew Margaret would more than likely flea New Jersey and move to another state just to get away from the family members in New Jersey giving her so much strife in her life.
After all she was determined not to loose custody of her oldest daughter to her adoptive parents, and determined the oldest daughter's father would not get visitation rights, as she was fighting both of these parties in a court of Law for her child. And I believe the so called best friend, by the best friend only, was more friendly with Margaret's husband rather than Margaret herself, and perhaps this is the reason for the rage and announcement she wanted a divorce! Doesn't make sense though that she would go to her Adoptive Father to announce this, as they were in a constant battle over her oldest child for custody? But he states this happened ???
With Margaret out of the Picture, immediately, the adoptive parents went straight to court only days after Margaret disappeared. got custody of the oldest child. The father of the oldest child joined them in court giving his persmission for them to have his daughter with visitation rights of coarse that he had already been demanding from Margaret but being refused.
And Margaret's Husband has custody of his two girls, and doesnt have to worry about being a weekend father and now he is even freed up to be a single man again, to ??? And I really wonder about this Jersey Friend, lurking in the background ready willing and able to just step right in and fill Margaret's shoes now ??? Is anyone but me seeing over the whole BOX here instead of looking inside or outside the box, but over the box, down the road a ways?? as to what the pay off is that Margaret worked for herself all them years she invested into the Army? the United States Army and the FireFighters! These were Jobs, with Benefits! What comes with being a retired vet. from the Army? BENEFITS! who would get these benefits???? No body went to court only days after Margaret disappeared to fight for custody of any child but the oldest child ????
After 2 years of a Missing Person being missing, most states allow the next of Kin to file for death benefits. They allow the family to declare you legally dead ???? It was stated somewhere? I wish I had the Link to post here today, that the Haddican's were in a terrible financial bind.
Simply for all the reasons stated above, if someone abducted Margaret that day, I do not believe they are still holding her hostage.
If Margaret left on her own accord because she couldnt take it any longer and did leave with the $11,000 not even the police can validate was even available to her??? She was very smart and intelligent, and in a very short period of time, I believe she could have accessed with that money, a way to retrieve her children back already and be set up in a place and position to do so. It's been 8 months now. She could have gotten back up on her feet really well, with that kind of MAD MONEY!
Did she go to a lifestyle of drugs and really checking out of reality completely ??? Is she walking the streets today an addict? Homeless?
If this happened, I feel very very confident that someone in her Birth Family knows exactly where she is at today then. I guess she could possibly have a dear enough Friend out there somewhere, who is hiding her out too. That is certainly possible.
Law Enforcement, the District Attorney, A Judge, someone in the Judicial System should be able to Legally Force this entire family both Adoptive and Birth family, to take these Lie Detector Test available to the Police force for Investigation purposes and ruling out possible persons of interest. They Certainly have Enough Probrable Cause to do so. What is this same Law Enforcement going to do in 2 years when the family can declare Margaret Legally dead and there is nothing they can do to stop them from Cashin In on Margarets Life Insurance, 401 -K etc.etc.
If the investigation has grown this cold in just 8 months, it appears even the police force is going to sit back and just wait and see what happens?
What is it going to take now, someone coming forward with a guilty conscious or Confession? It seems the Reward Money is not enough for a tipster to come forward yet ? Well, heres another Novel of yet Nancy Drews ammature Investigation Fiction Attempt. I Pray Margaret can beat all of these odds. Thanks for letting me share again. I wish I had more graved in Stone News to write about. But I too am still baffled as to what really happened to Margaret Haddican McEnroe?
