atherella
Where is Haleigh?
- Joined
- Feb 6, 2009
- Messages
- 1,981
- Reaction score
- 2
Was Cindy Anthony there?
No, she was not.
Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.
Was Cindy Anthony there?
He had them on his days and when children are concerned there is no such thing as 9/10 of the law.My son has been fighting for custody of his son, so I know how hard it is to take children away from a mother, they never would have just taken his word about drug abuse.There is more to the story of her losing her kids.
IMO the custody trial paints Ronald as a huge hypocrite. He has several drugs arrests under his belt himself and he's admitted on tape that he likes being high and is willing to traffick drugs but if he can't he says he can just eat all the merchandize himself. I believe he was very worried about Crystal's drug use... NOT. The custody fight was about something else.
I believe it must be very disheartening for innocent relatives on all sides of Haleigh's family to know or to believe or even suspect that there are family members or ex-family members who know what happened to her but have decided not to tell. It might be hard to find the strength to organize search efforts when you know that it could easily be made unnecessary if certain unusual people just did the right thing for once in their miserable lives.
They keep saying they are still looking for Haleigh...but the only thing I see are photo ops. What are they doing on a day to day basis?
good point...
I can just see Nancy asking TN...why she still believes Haleigh is MISSING...when the LE have changed this to a HOMICIDE.....and asking TN..what she believes the LE HAVE...to make such a HUGE claim..
It would be interesting to see how TN would answer that...
TN..says..she BELIEVES Haleigh is missing...but the LE BELIEVES HOMICIDE..and with some UNDISPUTED..facts...
all in my own opinion
He had them on his days and when children are concerned there is no such thing as 9/10 of the law.My son has been fighting for custody of his son, so I know how hard it is to take children away from a mother, they never would have just taken his word about drug abuse.There is more to the story of her losing her kids.
I would have no problem with TN going to this missing chidrens event, IF she had put Haleigh first from the beginning. It's strange how she has taken up for Ron at every turn, even supported Misty (the last person to see her Granddaughter), instead of looking for the truth of Ron's and Misty's involvement. You can't have both. You can't make your missing Granddaughter a priority while ignoring those who were closest to her at the time she disappeared.
I haven't heard of one incident where TN has actually searched for Haleigh. IF she thought she was really alive, you would think she would be searching day and night.
What kind of Grandmother ignores the people who very likely are involved in her Granddaughters disappearance, yet claims on TV she wants everyone to continue looking for Haleigh, yet...this same Grandma does NO actual searching herself. Does she try to arrange other locals to help set up searches ? If she really believed Haleigh was alive, she would move heaven and earth to find her. Reminds me of another Florida family who wasn't too keen on people searching for their Granddaughter either.
A personal story in regards to your post. My Step Father got custody of my sister, years ago. My mother was suffering from extreme depression, in and out of hospitals for a year. My Step Father was one of the most dangerous men I, or anyone who ever knew him, had ever come across. His motive for having custody was control over my mom, plain and simple. My mom tried, through the court system, as best she could, to regain custody of my sister to no avail. They did finally issue them joint custody as my mom improved through counseling and medication. Before the ink was dry on that order, my Step Dad took my sister down to the woods around Palatka, FL. They lived in a ran down mobile home (back in the woods) for EIGHT years. My sister was six years old at the time. The next time we saw my sister was when she was 14 years old.
We, as a family, looked all over for her, but never found her. I won't repeat what she went through during those years, but she will never recover from the abuse.
This Step father was able to act like quite the charmer in front of judges or anyone he needed to impress. As soon as the doors closed his real self would reappear.
Mothers don't always get custody (contrary to popular belief). My mom improved with the help of doctors, but still she lost her daughter to this ruthless man for the majority of my sisters life. Even when my mom was better, she was in fear of him and confronting a man like this (without police presence) was out of the question.
My mom had a very loving family (parents, aunts) who would have gladly stepped in to care for my sister, but the original Judge saw it fit for her to go with her dad.
This is probably not your every day situation, but Judges DO award custody to fathers (even when the fathers history is far from stellar). I could go on and on, but you get my drift.
Nothing personal justus4all but I think you're searching over the rainbow if you expect Nancy Grace to ask questions that might put Ron in a shadow of doubt.
Furthermore, Nancy doesn't seem as if she wants to touch that case at all now. Do you suppose viewers have made it know Nancy is out of touch when it come to Ron Cummings.
Bring on the angels for Nancy's wrestling match! jmo
Good question...
I have not read/heard that Crystal/her mom have been doing any searches or giving any media attention to find Haleigh..
In fact....correct me if I am wrong....Crystal has been very quiet and has stayed in the background ...since...the LE has made the announcement that Haleigh was no longer living..and ruled it a Homicide...
That could be the reason Crystal is not out there day and night searching .........The LE have the evidence...DEATH......HOMICIDE...
So, what is there to search....FOR....??????
SEARCH FOR THE TRUTH.......
TN is still saying she believes Haleigh is alive....So...if TN believes that so much.....SHE should be out searching...
Appparently TN is not taking the LE's word that there has been a Homicide on Haleigh......Perhaps she thinks the LE has made a mistake..
IF the LE has made a mistake...then WHO is the evidence..of a Homicide....if it is NOT Haleigh.........somebody else????? a different child?????
all in my own opinion
Good question...
I have not read/heard that Crystal/her mom have been doing any searches or giving any media attention to find Haleigh..
In fact....correct me if I am wrong....Crystal has been very quiet and has stayed in the background ...since...the LE has made the announcement that Haleigh was no longer living..and ruled it a Homicide...
That could be the reason Crystal is not out there day and night searching .........The LE have the evidence...DEATH......HOMICIDE...
So, what is there to search....FOR....??????
SEARCH FOR THE TRUTH.......
TN is still saying she believes Haleigh is alive....So...if TN believes that so much.....SHE should be out searching...
Appparently TN is not taking the LE's word that there has been a Homicide on Haleigh......Perhaps she thinks the LE has made a mistake..
IF the LE has made a mistake...then WHO is the evidence..of a Homicide....if it is NOT Haleigh.........somebody else????? a different child?????
all in my own opinion
Now, now, now, don't forget the pig pen search with Cobra when she took off due to a real snake sighting (her story, not mine) and don't forget the urgent search done by Teresa and Annette near the Shell Harbor boat ramp area after Grandma Flo called them to warn them that LE would be in the area the next day to search for Haleigh. IMO, there is absolutely nothing including Law enforcement that could stop a parent from looking for their lost child if they were determined to do so.
Oh, my....I would like to make a few comments; however, emotions are running higher than usual on this thread it seems and I know it's risky...but...
I don't believe Haleigh is alive and I don't believe TN does either. As with many of the things she has done in the past this doesn't make sense at all. I do not believe that TN is guilty of all the things many posters here accuse her of. I agree that she does try to take up for Ron (probably due to guilt over not raising him and being there for him) - but, that in no way equates to conspiracy, hiding a body or whatever the going theory may be. All IMO only.
IMHO, TN had every right to attend the event. She's in a damned if she does - damned if she doesn't on this board. She can't please posters here and it doesn't matter what she does - it's wrong and evidence of her guilt. (Perhaps she could alleviate some of her problems if she just learned to keep quiet???) I do not personally care for TN - but....
I would like to know is CS was invited. She should have been. If she was invited - she should have gone. Again, all JMO.
And, while I submit my thoughts as respectfully as possible, I do understand that my views are not popular with many.
It would be my hope that my perspective is as welcome here as anyone else's. If it isn't, a mod can let me know and I will promptly remove myself.
There have been many times, when it was expected that NG would back away from Ron...but she didn't. Like after the drug bust, she had TN on saying that Ron was crying for Haleigh & NG was near tears, when she said that Ron was the only one thinking about Haleigh. I saw it again when she made the point to stress that Hope was Misty's friend & they were tight, but failed to stress that Hope & Ron were close cousins. I don't balme NG, because I think she's getting inside information, but there's more to this case than the black & white twist they put on it. Anyway, I think she will cover this story again, but unless Ron is charged with murder, I doubt we'll see a change in that show's stance. Also, I think they know very well, what people think of Ron. I wrote a letter to their site, & it was never posted! & it wasn't a hate filled letter...just said that people needed to keep open minds, & that IMO, he was a druggie & was capable of violence. I guess it didn't fit in with the posters who were rallying for his release & dropped charges.Nothing personal justus4all but I think you're searching over the rainbow if you expect Nancy Grace to ask questions that might put Ron in a shadow of doubt.
Furthermore, Nancy doesn't seem as if she wants to touch that case at all now. Do you suppose viewers have made it know Nancy is out of touch when it come to Ron Cummings.
Bring on the angels for Nancy's wrestling match! jmo
There have been many times, when it was expected that NG would back away from Ron...but she didn't. Like after the drug bust, she had TN on saying that Ron was crying for Haleigh & NG was near tears, when she said that Ron was the only one thinking about Haleigh. I saw it again when she made the point to stress that Hope was Misty's friend & they were tight, but failed to stress that Hope & Ron were close cousins. I don't balme NG, because I think she's getting inside information, but there's more to this case than the black & white twist they put on it. Anyway, I think she will cover this story again, but unless Ron is charged with murder, I doubt we'll see a change in that show's stance. Also, I think they know very well, what people think of Ron. I wrote a letter to their site, & it was never posted! & it wasn't a hate filled letter...just said that people needed to keep open minds, & that IMO, he was a druggie & was capable of violence. I guess it didn't fit in with the posters who were rallying for his release & dropped charges.
I could've been dreaming, but I remember being mad...unless I dreamed that too, lol.BBM..Now that I do not remember..Last time I recall TN appearing on NG is when all that mess with Tommy came out about him being at the MH that night, and Misty and the kids not being there...
Last time I recall Ron appearing on her show was when she told Ron C she thought he was lying and NG told him she didn't know WHY but she would find out WHY...But I do realize I could be completely wrong in what I remember especially since I have slept since then...JMHO
Well said. I have a very similar story and fully appreciate what you are saying. The words "better parent" don't even need to come out of Ron's mouth.
I've learned that knowing how to work the system, is the name of the game. & lying. because the lies go unchecked.I'm living this right now concerning my grandchild! Her father is a con mand and knows how to con and manipulate the judicial system. The better parent does NOT always get custody.