Recent content by bajatacos

Yeah, I thought the exact same thing. Plus she's a beautiful girl who likes to post selfies but her profile pic is an old one. I'd love to know she's actually safe and it's not someone else posting on her account.

Women respond in all sorts of ways to being sexually assaulted.If you admire someone, they are incredibly wealthy, famous, and beloved, and you harbor feelings of self-blame because you trusted him, didn't resist enough, whatever . . . chances are you will internalize the whole thing instead of...

It's crazy to me that they haven't identified and arrested this guy yet, with such good surveillance footage and so many experts working on this case. Hopefully there's been a lot of progress behind the scenes. If she is still alive, time is very much of the essence here. :(

Thanks, that makes sense. I kinda think if someone was going through all that trouble though for the purposes of abducting girls, they'd also get a less identifiable/much more common car, like a Civic or something.

Maybe this is naive, but what is the process for LE to legally check car registrations from the DMV and question car owners? It it especially time-consuming or complicated to do so? Because checking for guys who live in Urbana and own a black Saturn Astra, which as another poster pointed out was...

If she is safe and is the one posting on FB it's strange that she wouldn't 1) include a little more detail (even a "I'm sorry to make everyone worry, it's a long story so please call or text if you want to talk") and 2) delete the comment about how she hasn't seen her son in a month. I almost...

Great posts. I'm curious why you think rape and not an affair that went wrong, ie, she tried to end it and he didn't want to, or she threatened to tell his wife, etc.

What a considerate man to call and let his friend know he made it home okay. It seems most likely something happened when he got out of the car and he never made it inside his home. A Marine is not going to be assaulted easily. I wonder if there was more than one perp and if they had a gun...

I don't think it's weird the sister/family took items belonging to her when stopping by to get the baby's things, if that actually happened. If my sister went missing and I didn't trust her husband, I'd instinctively grab anything I could that would be meaningful or valuable to my sister...

So, a beautiful young mom goes missing and there is no MSM coverage, no Facebook pages devoted to finding her, no family sharing missing posters (that I've seen), and very few details. One missing poster share from someone she identified as her boyfriend on FB, but it was over a week after she...

Unless there is a lot we don't know, I hope he gets medical and psychological treatment instead of jail time. :( So thankful this sweet baby is safe, though.

This is one of those maddening cases where I don't think we will ever know what happened, though obviously we all still hold onto some hope or we wouldn't keep checking. If Jenny disappeared in the U.S., or was a U.S. citizen with American parents who knew how to appeal to the media here...

Yeah, the type of guy who intentionally seeks out a young Asian woman as a wife tends to have pretty messed up views about women in general, I've noticed. Combined with social awkwardness and a lack of charm that makes it hard for them to find girlfriends in their own country. Just based on...

Wow, he really deleted her personal Facebook? If a loved one was missing and possibly killed, the last thing I'd ever want is to delete something that represented them so vividly . . . their photos, words, unique spirit. It's like he's erasing her. :( Not to mention, if he really believes she...

I hope Alyssa gets a lot of love, guidance, counseling, and support instead of getting in trouble. Having a baby when you're still a young teen, parents separating, a new stepdad and the changing household dynamics that brings . . . that's a whole lot to deal with, and that's only the stuff we...