Alleykins
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I had a good friend go off the grid for over 10 years, then he got sober and his life is good.
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I had a friend who didn't call his mother/family for over 10 years. I harped on him constantly to call his mum, just to let her know he was alive but he wouldn't. I asked him why he wasn't calling, or sending a letter (no internet back then, LOL), and he said there was no real reason. They didn't have a falling out or anything. Time just got away from him, and the longer he put it off, the more difficult it was for him because I think he was embarrassed for not staying in touch. I can't imagine how worried the poor woman was all that time, not hearing from him. He finally called her out of the blue one time, and made a point of calling me and telling me that he'd contacted her.
So, it is possible to go extended periods of time without a family hearing from a loved one, and that loved one still be alive.